Character Study: Her Ministry-Minded Marriage

My husband is a hard-working business owner. His nickname for the company is “3D,” as in three-dimensional. The dictionary explains that the third dimension implies being full of life and depth. Daily, as a “3D wife,” I am still learning about how to be a purposeful Helper to my Mr. 3D man.

This week, I discovered a woman of depth and substance who provided some insight. In Acts 18, Priscilla fleshed out her walk with God by meaningfully choosing to support her husband. Her life centered on her ministry and her marriage — the two seem synonymous. The church actually met in their home. Aquilla, her 3D husband, worked as a tent maker, but his heart obviously beat passionately for Christ. Her graceful spirit provided a striking portrait of a 3D wife who:

  • complements her man’s work efforts by coming alongside him as needed.
  • capitalizes on her husband’s strengths and frees him to be the man God created him to be.
  • creates a home environment that is warm and inviting to others in his circle of influence
  • couples with her husband to teach others about Christ and encourage them in their walk
  • cultivates close friendships with others in ministry
  • cares about causes that her husband is passionate about and gets her hands dirty working hard beside him
  • considers her husband her first priority — where He goes, she follows

A 3D wife understands that her faith is fleshed out as she makes her marriage her ministry. Proverbs 31 challenges:

27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

In Romans 16, Paul recognizes Priscilla and Aquilla, calling them his “co-workers in Christ” who had risked their very lives for Him. What a testimony! Do you know a 3D wife? Feel free to share her story below and recognize her worth.

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“The 411”

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” God, teach me lessons for living
so I can stay the course.
Give me insight so I can do what you tell me—
my whole life one long, obedient response” (Psalms 119:33-34, MSG).

Me and My Hubby — July 2009

In a Fog

  God and I had a “moment” last week.  My husband and I drove 12 hours straight from Florida to North Carolina.  What a crazy ride!  Part of the morning was foggy — picture Gotham city in a Batman movie.  The road ahead disappeared from view, and we drove on for several miles in faith — the path was unclear.  Not fun at all!  Thankfully, after a while, the sun broke through.   The fog had been a temporary, mysterious  inconvenience on our journey.

The next morning, I decided to get up early and plop down in a comfy rocking chair on my sister in law’s lovely porch with my Bible and my journal.  Again, the fog surfaced.  All I saw in front of me was a white blanket of nothingness.  Rather than resign myself to the sadness of the situation, I decided to stick it out and sit for a spell.  I spent some quiet moments in worship — reading, praying, and writing down about God’s abundant blessings found in His Word.   I chose to “wait it out” so to speak, and later that morning, I was rewarded.  The fog rolled slowly back, and behind it a mountain decked out in fall splendor appeared.  Color burst forth everywhere I looked.  It was in that magnificent moment that God spoke to me — You see, so much of life we seem to spend “in a fog” — the path ahead is hidden from view, and our present circumstances don’t pose a portrait we like.  That morning, sitting on the porch, God whispered to me — “My daughter, there is always beauty waiting behind the fog.  Just wait and rest in me.”

I don’t know what fog you are presently experiencing in your life, but rest assured, our Father has something magnificent ahead.   “Your eyes will see the King in His beauty; you will see a vast land” (Isaiah 33:17, HCSB).   Your mountain view is coming.  Wait and see.

Linking up with a like-minded sister at Beholding Glory as we brag on God.


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Visual Field Test

  About a year ago,  a routine eye exam turned into a day at the neurologist office.   After an MRI and a spinal tap later that month, I learned that my optic nerves were swollen, but thankfully, my vision had not been impacted.  I was encouraged to continue visiting a neuro ophthalmologist as a precaution — at each visit, I participated in a visual field test.  The purpose of the test was to determine if my perception had narrowed — Was I able to see objects on the outskirts of my view?  The  test is necessary because often we are not able to discern the peripheral vision loss as the decline is very gradual, and we have subconsciously learned to compensate.

Webster’s defines “discern” as detecting with the eyes, senses, or mind; to recognize or discriminate as distinct.  To discern, whether with the eyes or the mind, is a skill — one that can be lost if neglected.   Spiritually, my vision can also be crippled without my consciously being aware of it.  Ephesians 5:8-10 (HCSB) challenges us:  “For you were once darkness, but now [you are] light in the Lord. Walk as children of light — for the fruit of the light [results] in all goodness, righteousness, and truth —  discerning what is pleasing to the Lord.”  The key to strengthening my spiritual discernment is to remain connected to Christ.  He helps me to

  • distinguish between good and evil as I hear His voice (I Kings 3:9; Hebrews 5:14)
  • reign in my will and emotions to stay on course (Proverbs 15:21)
  • see through facades and determine the true motives of others (Malachi 3:18)
  • perceive the right time to act and determine the best course of action (Ecclesiastes 8:5)
  • gain insight that helps me understand His will and purposes (Proverbs 2:3)
  • learn from my mistakes and make wiser choices in the future (Proverbs 19:25)
  • recognize my own selfish, fleshy motives (Luke 12:56; Hebrews 4:12)

Just as light must penetrate the eye for us to see, we must connect to the true, eternal Light through Bible study and prayer in order to see with keen spiritual eyes.  Paul’s prayer in Philippians 1 encourages us to purposefully pursue this aim:  “My prayer for you is that you may have still more love—a love that is full of knowledge and wise insight. I want you to be able always to recognize the highest and the best, and to live sincere and blameless lives until the day of Jesus Christ. I want to see your lives full of true goodness, produced by the power that Jesus Christ gives you to the praise and glory of God” (v. 9-11, PHI).

Have you had a visual field test?  What negatively impacts your field of vision spiritually?

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